The "Go to friend"

Have you ever felt like you just don't fit in anywhere? You feel like you don't belong, A shadow in the corner. The one who watches everyone, the one who doesn't get picked, chosen or even noticed by anyone? Have you tried to change who you are to be accepted by other? To try to fit in? That is a common thing teens do. They want to be popular and the one "everyone" wants to hangout with...The "Fun" friend...
Well I have never been the fun friend.... I am the "Go to" friend when someone needs help or someone to talk to. When I was younger I struggled with that. I didn't understand why no one wanted to just talk or hang out with me. Why did they only come to me when they felt alone? I didn't understand.
Today I thank God everyday that I am the "Go To" Friend. God has given me the gift of encouraging people and helping them through hard times. He gives me the words to say and the ability to pray with them. Being a mentor (Or the "Go to friend") is something i really enjoy, Its something I've done for years but never thought of it as "Serving God" or "Being a good servant"
I am honored to help these girls through hard times and draw them closer to God, Because that is what I'm trying to do. I'm not going to tell them "Life is okay and you'll get through this" But that God is the only way and He will help them. I am just here to remind them that God is Always there....

At times it gets frustrating, tiring, and kinda drains you from life. But God is helping Me and I am growing in His word everyday. Helping others helps me too! 
Everyone needs someone to encourage them, pray for them, and draw them closer to God.
I am honored to be the "Go to friend" 

“I will go to the ends of the earth to be around someone who makes me want to love God more and be more excellence. I will run fast away from the kind of person who is always a drainer, complains and drags me down and depletes my desire to walk with God.” - 

~Kaite Michelle 
~The go to friend...

Waiting for Love

~A good relationship is worth the wait~

~When I wait you strengthen My Heart~ 

Psalm 27:14

Waiting for the right one can be hard at times...Wondering if the right one will ever find you...You may feel discouraged and you might loose the dream of finding a spouse and starting a life. But don't give up hoping..God has the right person for you. Maybe He has other plans for you. Maybe hes waiting until you trust Him fully. There could be lots of reasons...Listen to God. Trust Him and live you life to the fullest and wait patently for God to send the right person for you. It can be hard expectantly if most people around you are in a relationship or seem like they have it together...Your time will come no matter your age.... Felling lonely is one of the worst feelings but we are NEVER alone...God is always there....You need to listen to Him. He is always talking.....when you feel alone go to a quiet place alone and read your bible, pray, and just listen..Try to keep your mind quiet (Which is very hard) and just listen.... God will bless you! :)

Stay strong and keep the faith! Remember God is ALWAYS there.....Open your ears! :)

Patience is needed when waiting on the right one  because you don't want to rush into a relationship with the WRONG one...

God bless,

~Kaite Michelle Leist

A lady in waiting...